Tolani Shobajo, better known by her stage name DJ Tolani Baj, a former Big Brother Naija Reality Show contestant and disc joker, has addressed her claim that only broke guys “dance violently” at clubs.
She advised men to dance in the club as long as they don’t overdo it and strive to be the focus of attention.
Remember how the TV reality star last month faced harsh backlash on social media for tweeting that she finds it offensive when men dance in clubs?
Tolani clarified what she meant in her tweet during the most recent episode of the BTS Reality audiovisual podcast.
She stated:
“I feel like that tweet was misinterpreted. And that’s because I was the messenger. I feel like a lot of people understood what I meant but they chose to misunderstand me.
“If you are going to go to the club, I’m not saying you shouldn’t try to dance or be cool but why are you doing like this [dancing aggressively] and being the center of attraction?
“I would rather you sit down and admire your girl, the girl you came with let her dirty grind on you or something.”
Men should be cool with it and not try to steal the show, she said, even if the club’s women don’t want to dance.